What
is SCW? … Systemic
Constellation Work is an experiential process resulting in the
revelation of underlying, often hidden dynamics that can limit — and promote
— our ability to live the healthiest and most successful life possible. Constellations are very often
conducted in groups and also individually in person, by phone or via Skype.
Who can benefit? … SCW
addresses personal and organizational issues including addictions/compulsions,
illnesses, low morale and recurring systemic problems like accident-proneness,
business failure, attrition, even depression and suicide. Anyone willing to look at the possible
systemic sources of an issue can benefit from SCW.
Where
is it done? … SCW has been evolving in practice around the world for about
thirty years. In North
America , over the last fifteen years, it has gained momentum as an
efficient method among therapeutic modalities.
Developed in this format by Bert Hellinger (German author,
philosopher and psychotherapist www.hellinger.com) SCW has evolved from working at the level of the family to working
with organizations, businesses and sometimes entire social systems.
How
does it work? … SCW states the principle that everyone in a system, whether
family or organizational, has his/her own place and therefore belongs. A person is excluded from the system when
something traumatic happens (for example, an early death or stillborn child)
and those in the system left behind, in their intense grief, exclude them from
the family memory. In an effort to
maintain balance, and out of love for the family, someone else will
unconsciously come to stand in that place. This “entanglement” means that the
person is not as free to live his/her own life.
Example: the
grandmother of a client had committed suicide years prior; the client’s mother was
unable to fathom this loss and could not speak of her mother, or of the event
which ended her life. The client has been experiencing long-term depression and
in the course of an unfolding Constellation is seen to be very
connected to the grandmother. A simple
action of re-connecting with the grandmother (bringing her back into the family
soul, as it were), results in feelings of great relief, a sense of renewed
wholeness and reconciliation for the client in connection to other family
members and to Life itself. Such is the amazing and seemingly magical strength
of the “Knowing Field,” the energetic space encompassing each system.
SCW allows for profound healing for individuals and for their
family systems when seen with this unique approach. SCW used for business and
organizational purposes can provide a wider lens with which to view dynamics
caused by a past event that are presenting symptoms, for example with product
failure or within human resource conflicts.
Frequent firings, or employees leaving within a certain department are
tendencies seen to be systemically connected and therefore, with this approach,
resolvable. During some organizational constellations a family issue may arise
with an individual, at which time the facilitator is best to advise the group
that the impetus has now changed and a decision may be made whether to continue
on this new track or open the issue privately with that individual. Family-run
business adds another level of complexity within the organizational system.
Awareness of whom in the family/business came first and who is giving versus
taking are appropriate queries into the current dynamics.
Why are they called
“Constellations”? … The
original German word was "Aufstellung " which means "placement,
assembly." Because this word did
not translate well into English, the word Constellation became widely used to
indicate the setting up of people in a visual way, the first step in the SCW
process. The client gives each one their placement and shows us how they see
them relating to one another.
What is the process? … When a client decides to “set up a Constellation” for
him/herself about a current issue the following general procedure takes place:
Ø The Facilitator asks the client a few
questions to clarify the number of representatives needed to address the issue
and what resources might be helpful in doing so; some information can be
relayed about the actual issue, but is not necessarily required;
Ø The Client chooses workshop
participants to represent the family members or organizational entities (these
can be parents, siblings, co-workers, even abstract elements like ‘work’,
‘money’ ‘illness’, etc.), and are placed by the Client in the room in
relationship to one another. (If working
one to one, the Client may place mats or other items to physically represent
these elements or people.) The Client
will also place a representative for him/herself. This reveals the starting image of what the Client unconsciously knows about the situation;
Ø The Facilitator and the Client
observe what takes place as, over time, the representatives report what they
are feeling and may want to shift their positions accordingly, resulting in
their finding a place where they feel best.
The Facilitator may test out where the Constellation needs to go by
adding additional representatives, or by moving them, as she feels appropriate. The process can take anywhere from 20 minutes
to an hour and even more in some cases.
Ø The Facilitator may ask the Client if
s/he feels ready to take the place where his/her representative has been in the
Constellation to further anchor the new image and strengthen what has been
brought to light. Along with standing in
the ‘new place’, speaking some words/sentences of resolution can offer the Client
new beginnings on many levels. When all
feel well in their final position in the Constellation — everyone in the circle will also feel
the calm, depth, relief and release — the Constellation is usually felt to be completed and is left
exactly at that point. Some resolutions
may have occurred, in subtle or dramatic form or, as is sometimes the case, the
movements may simply have revealed certain dynamics or allegiances among the
representatives.
Each Facilitator has
their own style of facilitating and brings their own particular strengths and
skills to SCW. Many combine more than one aspect of healing
work, depending on their background, training, personality and proclivities.
Frequently,
participants find that a Constellation set up by someone else actually reflects
an issue for them and profound affects are felt by everyone. This is one of
many reasons why working in the group format is so powerful. For others working one-to-one is a private and
therefore more comfortable means of working.
One-to-one constellations can successfully make use of the Clients’
internal imagery, tabletop materials, floor mats, chairs, pillows and other
objects for representations of family dynamics and ensuing shifts.
In over thirty
countries world-wide, hundreds of thousands of Constellations have offered
people many extraordinary opportunities to open, expand and heal, for
themselves and for their families and communities. No part of Life is untouched by the Systemic
Constellation Work when we say “Yes! We will look at this with new eyes and
feel connected with a new responsibility, commitment and in a new loving embrace.”
The author wishes to thank Suzi Tucker (www.hellingerapproach.com) and Diana Claire Douglas (www.inspiritworks.com) for general editorial input with the above, in its various incarnations.
The author wishes to thank Suzi Tucker (www.hellingerapproach.com) and Diana Claire Douglas (www.inspiritworks.com) for general editorial input with the above, in its various incarnations.
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